Saturday, August 19, 2017

Good News

I hope this post finds you all well and enjoying your summer as much as we have been enjoying ours!

Since my last post a couple of weeks ago my 'good' days have been fewer because my hemoglobin and neutrophil levels have been so low, that I don't have a lot of energy to be up and about. Today I am going to be having a blood transfusion which I am actually looking forward to. I think it'll provide me with some much needed energy!

In the midst of a couple of "low" weeks, we have had some fantastic news. The CT scan that I had two weeks ago shows that all of my tumours are shrinking which means that the chemo I am taking is working! As much as I do believe in medicine and science, I do also believe in the power of prayer and positive thoughts, so I know that my success so far is owed in part to all the people around us who have been thinking about us and praying for us. This news gives us hope, and also makes all the side effects of chemo feel like they are worth it. We know we still have a long road ahead of us, but we are feeling more optimistic now than ever.
Daryl and I with our long time friends the Woronieckis, Herrings and Neumuellers celebrating our good news!

The amazing news doesn't stop there. We have also had a couple of very generous donations to our family which just go to show how awesome the people in our lives are. The first comes from a team of paddle boarders who recently did a 24 hour paddle to raise money for families dealing with cancer. A good friend of mine, Marlee, suggested to her cousin Scott Burton, one of the paddle boarders, that our family would be a good candidate to receive some of the money they raised. Scott took her up on that suggestion and delivered their generous gift to us last week. After having met Scott, I have now added paddling with him and his group when they do the relay next year, to my list of goals!
My friend Marlee and I with her cousin, Scott, who raises money for families dealing with cancer.

The second very generous donation has come from our BC Hydro and IBEW union family, whom Daryl has been lucky enough to work for and with for the past 13 years. So many of the people that Daryl has worked with over these years have raised money together for our family and then went to the union, who matched the donation. We can't even express how thankful we are for such an amazing gift. It is not only the money that we are thankful for but also the care, compassion and empathy that blows us away. We are forever indebted to you.

These donations will be put to good use. Though my treatments through the Cancer Agency are covered by our medical system, many of the alternative treatments that I am trying are not. Since both Daryl and I have been off work this summer it has not been easy to pay for all of the 'extras' that have gone along with treating this disease.

We are so thankful to our community of family, friends, co-workers, practitioners and those that we have met so far along this journey. You all continue to take part in my healing and we are forever grateful.

Love Jen




Thursday, August 3, 2017

Adventuring On

Sorry it has taken me so long to update my blog. Summer has been busy and mostly wonderful for our family, as I hope it has been for you and yours.

Once again I need to start by saying that our family has been overwhelmed by the kindness and generosity shown to us by our friends, family and community. Our freezers are full of food given to us by teachers at my school as well as by many of our friends. We continue to have a wonderful house cleaner who comes to our house every second week, paid for by the teachers at my school, who helps to take care of the cleaning around our house so that we can spend more time doing things that matter. Knowing that we are so supported by the people around us has helped to buoy our spirits even in spite of any less than positive news we have received.

We found out a few weeks ago that I do have a spot of cancer on the right frontal lobe of my brain. This was not the news we were hoping for. The good news, though, is that the cancer does not seem to be impacting the tissue around the tumour, nor am I having any symptoms attributed with it. So we continue to be thankful and hopeful and positive that the chemo is working and will shrink all of the tumours, including the one in my brain. This Saturday I am having a CT scan which will determine if the chemo is, indeed working.

I am seeing not only a super knowledgeable and amazing oncologist, Dr. Gelman, but also a fantastic naturopath, Dr. Mcleod, who specializes in integrative cancer support. Both members of my cancer team, as well as my Dad, who beat his own cancer 35 years ago, have helped me to see that I need to embrace and even love chemotherapy, as it will be my cure. So for now, I am staying positive. I will admit that on days that I feel my worst, it is really hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I do have at least three "hard" days per week where the effects of the chemo are overwhelming, but on those days I try my best to remember that I am feeling awful because the chemo is working and doing its job.


Since I do have three or four good days per week I have still been able to do all of the activities I love. Those activities include three of my passions; camping with my kids and our friends, paddle boarding and eating Mexican food! I have even been able to go out and dance the night away with my wonderful friends. I will leave you with some pictures of the fun we have had so far this summer.

Love Jen
Me with my son Greyson, my nephew Eli and my daughter Ella at White Pines Beach

Paddling with my friend Jay and our kids at Osoyoos Lake at the beginning of July

A family portrait, by Jacqueline Dance Photography, at Rolley Lake

A group of me and my friends before a night of dancing

Me reading the kids a bedtime story at Hicks Lake

Daryl and Ella out fishing in the kayak at Hicks Lake

After a great paddle across Hicks Lake with Daryl and the kids

At White Pines Beach with my parents, my sister Katie, Greyson and my nephew Eli

Paddle boarding with Laura and Jay at Rolley Lake
Out for dinner and a walk with Carly, Sush and Silke
 
Our family at Campbell Valley Park, by Melissa Anderson Photography

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